Where do I begin? How do I start? Are you trying to sell me something?
To answer your questions in order: Begin where you are at, start by making one step forward. And no, not trying to sell you something.
I have been where you are at now. Something in your life needs to change. You just don’t know what or how. Maybe you are afraid. Girl, I get that. I left two relationships (one marriage, one long term relationship) and two careers behind in my dust. I moved clear across country. Believe me when I say I have been where you are at now.
Its begins usually with an ending…
In the chaos of my life, my sister gave me something that I will never forget. She gave me a letter. A letter to a lightworker written by Rebecca Campbell. You can find the letter in its entirety here.
I believe that your tragedies, your losses, your sorrows, your hurt happened for you not to you. And I bless the thing that broke you down and cracked you open because the world needs you open.
Rebecca Campbell
That one quote still stays with me after all these years. The World needs YOU open. Bless the thing that cracked you open. Rebecca is a genius.
It was those words and others like it that helped me make pivots in my life. I made leaps in my life. Transitions can be hard. They are damn scary when you are making them.
I learned to live my life by letting my soul led.
It was hard. Damned hard. I’m still learning to do that. I created boundaries for those closest in my life to protect myself and my time. Learn more about that here.
So if you are asking me how to start, I’d say that it starts with you. I’m not sure if you are really there yet. Only you will know if you are ready. That is some Obi-Wan stuff right there.
Are you brave enough to do this? YES. YOU. ARE.
So pick up a journal and ask your soul a question. Be still and listen, really listen, to the answer.